Caught your boyfriend cheating on you? It’s not only shaken your trust, but also shaken your entire belief system. Though you may feel alone right now, most of us have been there through similar situations one time or the other. So, you’re not entirely alone.
Things had started to change lately – he was going to a ‘friend’s’ place a little too often, you found him glued to the phone a little too much, and most of your dinner plans were getting canceled, of course, as he had to work overtime. But it never occurred to you until one day you followed his car and saw him in someone else’s arms. Maybe you went and slapped him right away, or maybe you just changed your number and never called him back.
Whatever it is that you do, catching your boyfriend cheating on you hurts. You are in a state of shock, disgust and confusion. You are wondering what went wrong when everything seemed so perfect. Was it you or it was him? You might want to rip off his head, scream out loud or maybe you just want to cry. But, however difficult it might seem at the moment, the only solution is to accept the reality and move on with your life.
Don’t cry over someone who won’t cry over you.
– Lauren Conrad
“No guy is worth your tears and when you find the one that is, he won’t make you cry.”
– Anonymous
“If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it was, and always will be yours. If it never returns, it was never yours to begin with.”
– Sherrilyn Kenyon, Unleash the Night
“Some day you’ll cry for me like I cried for you, Some day you’ll miss me like I missed you, Some day you’ll need me like I needed you, Some day you’ll love me but I won’t love you.”
– Anonymous
“The day you finally decide to love me will be the day after I have given up on chasing you.”
– Anonymous
“Forget who hurt you yesterday, but don’t forget who loves you tenderly today.”
– Anonymous
“The hardest part of loving someone is knowing when to let go, and knowing when to say goodbye.”
– Anonymous
“I hate you for not letting me have you.”
– Anonymous
“Never be sad for what is over, just be glad that it was once yours.”
– Anonymous
“I hate to see the one I love happy with somebody but I surely hate it more to see the one I love unhappy with me…”
– Anonymous
“If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.”
– Anonymous
“Should I hate you because you hurt me? Or should I love you because you made me feel special?”
– Anonymous
“I will always love him, I just won’t love the way he treated me.”
– Anonymous
“Now I believe it when people say love is blind…’cause I must have been blind to love a person like you.”
– Anonymous
“One cannot truly experience the beauty of love without enduring the pain that comes with it once it is lost.”
– Anonymous
“The heart does heal and you will love like this again…only when you do, you will deny you ever felt like this before.”
– Anonymous
“Moving on is simple, it’s what you leave behind that makes it so difficult.”
– Anonymous
“Anything worth having is a thing worth cheating for.”
– W. C. Fields
“All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.”
– Alexander Scott
It’s understandable that you are in a lot of pain right now. But think over it again… isn’t it better that you found out sooner, before it was too late? He has clearly moved on, and so should you. Because, “It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust.”
